You had a very unpleasant break: maybe your ex cheated you, insulted you ... or he or she left you without giving any reason on the eve of your marriage.

Either way, it is clear to you, you never want to listen to that person again. And then, one day, your ex calls you or sends you a text message, casually: "How are you?" "Or even simply" Hello! ".

Once you have managed to see and understand the signs that your ex is returning, here are the 3 possible reasons why it means when an ex come back.

1. it means that she returns for sex.

If you have always had a great sex, your ex probably does not want to give up, and know that you should also miss it, he feels safe enough to give him an opportunity. The problem is that "take a good shot" is just going to compensate for the negative effects of seeing someone again that has hurt you so much.

2. It means that an ex returns saying: "I understood my mistakes"

When it comes to romantic relationships, most people improve through experience ... and especially by making mistakes.
If your ex has discovered all the troubles of it with you and still thinks there was a very strong connection, he or she may have decided to return and give him another attempt. Except ... when the damage of the first attempt is still there, it is difficult for the second to be successful.

3. It means that an ex returns from nostalgia.

Your Ex has been found single! It is likely that at least sometimes, he or she feels lonely, she doubts her choice, or realizes that he or she misses you. A short text allows you to investigate the reaction of it to see if it would be possible to keep it under the elbow a little more.

But, among these emotions, obviously there is also the lack and desire to see their ex again ... and therefore, you will have to face the temptation to respond, and respond quickly, in full emotional agitation. Does that remind you of something?

What Does It Mean When An Ex Come Back?

  • Take your time to decide.

  • The more that little text of your ex affected you, more careful you should be in your reaction.

  • Remember that a 'Hello' does not mean anything, certainly, it's not that your ex is ready to scale Everest to be forgiven and spend the rest of your life with you.


Remember that no matter what, you can not resume your old relationship with your ex; Eventually, you can start a new, different and (that is the point, at least), better.

It implies letting it go after you and take the time to discover that person who is in front of you and who must have changed since the last time.

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Adeniji Oluwapelumi is a Relationship, Literature & Lifestyle Blogger, Vlogger, Social Media Influencer, Social Media Manager/Strategist, Advertising Agency, Content Creator, Travel lover, an online crawler, an introvert, an extrovert and a witty writer. He loves nature and creativity.


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